to love, honor and OBEY

its funny how 'obey' has become such a word of contention, so much so that people actually take it out of their wedding vows.

here's an interesting take on what the vows mean in everyday life.
http://beyondjane.com/family/marriage/the-secret-gift-of-your-wedding-vows/

i learnt rather unpleasantly last night - the consequences of not obeying the one u've promised to love, honor and obey all the days of your life on earth together, even if u've not made that vow yet!

i really hate arguing/fighting with u when ur a million miles away.
the silence is the hardest part.
of not knowing when i'll get to hear ur voice again, or see ur smile.

im sorry for being stubborn , n for saying u had no right to insist on me resting
i know ur just being concerned for my health, for now and for longterm.
i hope by the time u read this, u can find room to forgive me.

it was nice to have dinner with ur family again today. havent seen hailey for so many wks n she's jus growing up so quickly. still cute as ever, but getting naughtier.

i miss u beebs. so very much.